Saturday, March 2, 2013

Joy in Thankfulness

In a western world where we are driven by entitlement, ingratitude flourishes. When we finally receive the thing which we believe we deserve, it does not always bring us the joy that we anticipated. Why might this be? I believe it is because we do not always receive things with an attitude of thanksgiving.

What is so different here in Guinea, in a place where many people make less than a couple of dollars a day? People don’t hold on to the few possessions they have quite so tightly, and entitlement doesn’t seem quite as prolific as back home. I am amazed with watching how people willing share from the little bit they have.

How does this affect my experience as a nurse caring for people in Guinea? More often than not, I have been overwhelmed by the humble attitudes of thankfulness and appreciation from my patients and families. You may argue that they are receiving free medical care and surgery, so who wouldn’t be appreciative. There is still something so unique and different in this work environment, when many times a day I hear the words thank you. As you look into their faces you see the genuineness of their words in their smiles and gestures.
I cannot fully describe the expression of their appreciation, but I think part of the reason is patients don’t come to the ship feeling entitled to surgery. Thus they are so grateful and thankful for the opportunity that we provide. One recent example from this past week is a patient’s father who came to visit during the evening shift.  As the father entered the ward and saw his daughter, he immediately grabbed my hand and told me over and over again “Merci, Merci Beaucoup” during his entire visit.
I am discovering the joy that comes from a thankful heart. Maybe this is why on the outside it may appear that people in Guinea do not have much, but when you look closer there is still joy in their lives!
Do you find yourself feeling entitled and not really being satisfied after you received what you thought you deserved? Maybe we can learn from the people here in Guinea who have so little, but find joy in receiving things out of thankfulness rather than entitlement.  


This is Mama from the January post "Giving Back."
She expresses her appreciation everytime I see her whether
at the Hope Center or while on the dock for an outpatients appointment.
 

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